Just as we, humans, do not shake hands, greet, or hug every stranger we meet, it is also not natural or necessary for dogs to meet every dog they encounter. Moreover – such random encounters can be quite risky. Why?
1. Leashed dogs find it hard to communicate through body language.
Dogs primarily communicate through body language, but leashes restrict their movement and opportunities to communicate naturally. Often, leashes get tangled, prompting owners to intervene, adding extra stress to the situation. Many people's first instinct is to pull the leash tight, which sends confusing or stress-inducing signals to the dog. With choke collars or other uncomfortable aids, this can even cause pain – and pain can in turn trigger aggression.
2. You do not know the other dog or its history.
A strange dog may have had previous bad experiences, traumas, or simply preferences that do not match your dog's. Dogs do not have to get along with each other, and they do not have to interact with everyone – just like people.
3. If a dog cannot remove itself from a situation when it wishes to, a conflict arises.
It is very important for dogs to have the opportunity to remove themselves from uncomfortable situations. If there is no space for this, a dog may growl or, in the worst case, even bite, signaling that it does not want contact.
4. Frequent greetings with strange dogs teach the wrong expectation.
When a dog gets used to the idea that every other dog is a potential playmate, it can lead to frustration and reactions (e.g., barking, pulling) in the future when contact is not allowed. This is a common concern among many dog owners that is often not considered at first.
When someone says: “Let them meet, they will get along!”, then dare to refuse. You have every right to protect your dog's well-being and sense of security. Don't be afraid to seem rude – you are responsible for your dog, not anyone else.